Okay TTCers..I want to see how many of you.....?

I want to see how many of you ladies are willing to stop "trying" to get pregnant...you know like..stop using the opks, charting the bbt, checking your cm or whatever you ladies do. My hubby and I are going on to 4 mths with no luck....after a long week of thinking i may be pregnant..AF shows her ugly face on Saturday and rained down on my parade...I was devastated cuz I am usually regular never late except the week before my wedding but that was due to stress obviously..anyways...do you ladies think it's possible to stop "trying" or will you continue to do what you do? After AF is done for me in the next couple of days..i said to myself that i'm done with all the tracking and charting..my hubby and I will have fun regardless of when it's during the fertile time or not..we're just gonna BD when we feel like it. Who's with me on stop Trying in hopes that the next month we get a BFP? Baby dust to all of us NOT TTC and hopefully we get our BFPs soon =).